Last night I was able to attend a wedding in the most gorgeous venue I have ever seen.
The mountains. The water. The sky. The atmosphere. Just all of it. Beautiful.
The ceremony was untraditional and amazing. The couple chose to write their own wedding vows, which I always think takes some bravery.
Both of their vows made me a little teary-eyed, but something the bride said has really stuck in my mind…
“…I promise to love myself and to love you…”
Every time I think about those words I am shocked and humbled. What an amazing woman. What a great foundation for this marriage.
I could not help but put myself in her shoes. My husband and I were married eight years ago and maybe, maybe I could have said those words… but likely not if I was being honest.
Confidence still does not always come easy for me. Anxiety leads to self doubt and shame. I’m working on this and will continue to, because we need more people like this bride.
Maybe the reason this has been so prominent for me is because I was doing a really, really good job at beating myself up yesterday. #momguilt Then a sweet friend reminded me that I needed to give myself some grace.
So this is my little reminder that we all need to give ourselves some grace. Be kind to others, certainly, but also be kind to yourself. Love yourself. I bet everyone would be a whole lot nicer if we did.*
*Narcissists may not fit under this umbrella. 😉